Who doesn’t dream of a Hollywood smile, especially for teenagers and young girls. But for many, the dream remains a dream, and the reason for this is the fear that the device installed in the mouth will ruin the quality of life for a long time, for example, by taking away the opportunity to kiss.
It may take several years to correct a bite. Therefore, for young people, the burning question is: is it possible to kiss if you have braces installed in your mouth? Do they really interfere with this? Will they ruin their personal life because of this? Below are answers to many questions about orthodontic appliances on teeth and kisses.
Where is the truth, where is the myth?
Experts in this branch of dentistry, arguing over years of successful practice, convince young patients that modern braces do not spoil their personal lives at all and do not interfere with kissing. Contrary to the popular stereotype:
- Designs fixed to the teeth do not change the sensitivity of the lips and tongue
- The partner and his own teeth in the mouth, as well as the mucous membrane, cannot be injured during the kiss, because the braces fit tightly to the surface of the teeth
- There is no risk, even with a passionate kiss, of breaking or moving the structure
Many people are afraid that their braces will get too stuck together if both of them are wearing them in a pair. But this is only possible in comedies, for the amusement of the public, for a strong visual effect. To this, orthodontists respond that teeth are not involved in a kiss, which means they cannot interfere. And the structural elements have a rounded shape for safety; they simply have nothing to catch on each other.
If a couple of lovers simultaneously decided to correct their bite and acquire dazzling smiles, then together, supporting each other, it will be morally much easier to do this than alone.
Modern braces look like jewelry. or almost invisible at all
They come in sapphire, gold, transparent, and those that are installed on the back of the teeth. Therefore, you shouldn’t refuse them for fear of not getting a kiss.
Bottom line
There are no contradictions between braces and kisses, this is confirmed by numerous reviews. The main thing is to follow medical recommendations in this delicate matter, approach it with concern for your partner, and be creative.
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Psychology
Typically, an inferiority complex due to the installation of braces develops in adolescents. But even adults are often embarrassed to kiss when they are in the mouth. Doctors believe that the cause is not the design features in the mouth, but invented fears, fear of rejection by a partner. After all, the mirror reflects pieces of wire on the teeth that spoil the appearance, which cannot be hidden, they are in the most visible place.
Even smiling properly is a shame, and the fear of losing attractiveness overshadows all reason. The fear of losing a partner, worsening his attitude towards himself, or losing sexuality makes behavior insecure.
But if, because one person is wearing braces, the other half loses interest or changes their good attitude, then can the tender feelings of such a person be considered real? Is this connection worth holding on to? Obviously it's not worth it.
During the first 14-15 days after the structure is attached to the teeth, there is a feeling of a foreign body in the mouth. It is during this period that most lovers begin to fear that braces will worsen the kiss or make it impossible. But doctors are encouraging that everything is done in such a way as not to in any way affect the patient’s quality of life.
However, teenagers often depend on the opinions of their surroundings and company, so they are embarrassed by having braces in their mouths, fearing ridicule from their peers, and avoid kissing for the same reason. Although the juvenile critics themselves have no idea about the features of orthodontic structures. Adults take this easier, and they receive much less ridicule.
Hygiene
Daily oral care and cleaning of the chewing organs are important. The presence of staples complicates the process; it is necessary to use auxiliary methods, which include:
- Use a brush with a large number of medium-hard bristles.
- Interdental brushes.
- Mono-beam brush that cleans the area under the archwire, around the locks.
- Thickened dental floss used for cleaning the sides.
- A paste containing components that strengthen the enamel (fluorine, calcium, phosphates).
- An irrigator is a device for cleaning hard-to-reach areas using the pressure of a water jet, which simultaneously stimulates the blood supply to the gums.
- Mouth rinses to freshen breath.
To read: Find out how to properly clean dentures
Each meal should be completed by cleaning the teeth and braces from food debris using a brush and floss. Maintaining oral hygiene is a way to show respect for your partner.
Beautiful teeth require not only an even shape, but also a uniform color. Often, patients who ignore careful hygiene notice the appearance of white, unsightly spots that remain after the braces are removed.
The cause is the settling of food particles around the staples. At this time, bacteria secrete acid that washes minerals from the enamel, signaling the development of caries at the white spot stage. It can be reduced through the use of various remineralizing agents. It is not always possible to return the original color without drastic measures. The importance of properly caring for braces while wearing them cannot be underestimated. In addition to home hygiene procedures, professional teeth cleaning and polishing are also beneficial.
Recommendations
In order to overcome all the complexes that have appeared, you need to believe for yourself that wearing braces does not affect your appearance, but helps your smile become much more beautiful over time. Therefore, you shouldn’t change your lifestyle because of them, you need to be patient a little.
It must be remembered that the purpose of wearing braces is a beautiful smile, and braces themselves, although a long-term phenomenon, are temporary
Not everyone can do this; many still lose a lot of self-confidence during the period of wearing such structures on their teeth.
But there are some useful tips for this period:
- Any, even the most comfortable, well-fitted orthodontic structure in the mouth at first still interferes and feels like a foreign body;
- During the adaptation period, the patient simply gets used to it, learns to eat, take care of the oral cavity, and speak normally with the construction on the teeth;
- During the adaptation period, it is really worth refraining from kissing, so as not to spoil the pleasure, first of all, for the owner of braces due to the pain that occurs;
- The second partner must understand the problems of his partner and be patient.
No one forbids kissing with a bite correction system installed, even from the very first day, if it does not cause pain or discomfort. But most often you have to postpone such pleasant moments until you completely get used to braces.
How to kiss correctly with braces on your teeth
Those who have braces should not give up kissing, because this is a very important expression of feelings, inherent in nature itself. Moreover, we are talking about a treatment period of at least 1.5 – 2 years. It is important to simply master the “science” of how to kiss correctly during this period. To do this, you need to accustom yourself to comply with the following rules:
- refrain from “deep” kisses for at least 2 weeks after installing the system on your teeth;
- before kissing, it is advisable to lubricate your lips with a special gel or gloss for better glide;
- you need to start with shallow, slow and gentle kisses using only your lips;
- as you gain practical experience, you can connect the tongue, but it should not slide along the arc itself to avoid damage;
- the tongue should not be “handled” over the surface of teeth with braces and arches, it copes with its intimate task perfectly, inserted into the partner’s oral cavity, this is the so-called French kiss;
- You should carefully care for your oral cavity and use an orthodontic brush to keep your breath always fresh;
- when visiting, at a party, in a restaurant, you should avoid rough, sticky food and limit yourself to a light menu.
The best option for braces that create minimal interference for kissing are ceramic or sapphire, their surface is smoother. High aesthetic qualities play an important role. After all, in fact, everyone “loves with their eyes” - both men and women.
First kisses
After a period of adjustment, a gentle kiss can turn into a passionate one.
You should start with kisses that involve only your lips. This will save the couple from incidents and unpleasant impressions and rejection. A person with braces needs to get used to the situation, understand how to kiss, as if learning all over again. Therefore, at first, passion should be replaced with tenderness and not rush.
Especially important! From the very beginning, do not increase the pressure with your lips too much, so as not to cause unpleasant moments due to the feeling of the metal of the braces.
In such slow, very gentle movements of the lips, you both will find new, never experienced pleasure. After all, love usually makes you hurry.
Pain is short-term but inevitable
The principle of operation of braces is that they simply pull the teeth into the correct position. Naturally, this process is painful and at first the jaw will definitely ache a little. But this pain, on average, subsides within 3-4 days. In addition, it is very susceptible to various types of analgesics, so any painkiller tablet will help relieve discomfort. However, you need to be prepared for the fact that this discomfort will recur when, after 2-3 months, the doctor tightens the brace system even more. These days, it will most likely be difficult for you to chew solid food, so you should take care in advance of choosing a balanced diet of cereals, vegetable purees, and cream soups.
Passion
But if you still want a passionate kiss, then you should change the technique. The owner of the design must open his mouth wider during it, so that accidentally, from an excess of strong feelings, he does not injure his partner’s tongue. But at first you shouldn’t rush; you’ll have to add passion to the kiss more slowly than usual. French kissing should also be mastered gradually when braces are installed, so that your tongue does not touch the metal again.
The main thing during a kiss is not to develop complexes, not to worry, but to adapt to new circumstances. Gradually it will become clear how exactly you need to kiss so that nothing gets stuck and you can’t get hurt or injure your partner. Over time, you can even invent your own, individual kissing technique if you have braces. And this will make it even more pleasant for the couple to communicate, because this will be their intimate discovery or a small test of feelings.
About food
It is not recommended to eat hard, difficult-to-chew foods before or during a date.
Before and during a date (for example, at the cinema), those with braces are advised to refrain from crunchy foods, popcorn, nuts, and foods that are difficult to chew. The remains of such food will get stuck in the structural elements and will have to be removed at home. You can eat something that is easy to chew or dissolve in your mouth, such as chocolate. Onions and garlic before the start of a date should be canceled by everyone who wants it not to be the last, and not only because of the presence of braces.
What to do if your braces chafe?
For inflammation of the mucous membranes, you can use special gels and ointments that have an antiseptic and soothing effect - for example, Metrogyl Denta, Vinilin.
To prevent inflammation, it is also recommended to use orthodontic wax. The purpose of its use is to isolate and protect soft mucous membranes from solid elements of the system. Apply to sharp protruding parts and replace as they fall off. It is recommended to remove the wax while eating.
Silicone strips for braces, like wax, are used to protect soft mucous membranes. Silicone is presented in the form of strips that can be used to cover one bracket or the entire row. Unlike wax, it does not crumble and is used repeatedly.
Jokes aside
Important! People who have braces installed at first experience certain difficulties associated with adaptation. If they (especially teenagers) are ridiculed during such a period, and even from a partner, then some simply remove the structure without going halfway to a correct bite and a dazzling smile. This is unreasonable, but from a psychological point of view it is understandable. After all, during such a period they experience severe stress, uncertainty, and discomfort.
In this case, the partner or partner must provide moral support to their half, and jokes on this topic can only be made if both have such a structure in their mouths.
Myth 4. After installing braces, you cannot eat hard and sticky foods, or chew chewing gum.
This is partly true. Diet recommendations are aimed at reducing the risk of damage to braces. Eating foods such as apples, carrots, meat, and hard bread is still possible, but requires a little more caution - for example, in finely chopped form.
In the case of sticky bars, candies, and chewing gums, the problem is that food particles stick to the archwire or clasps, which can cause damage. In addition, the habit of chewing gum is harmful because it causes overload of the temporomandibular joints.
Braces are made in such a way that they can serve you flawlessly throughout the entire treatment period. Too rough food or pressure when chewing nuts or seeds can damage the system components. This increases treatment time and also leads to additional costs when replacing damaged elements.
